Prayers for 9/11 – Twenty Years Later

Fires breaking out in the towers on 9-11SMOKE BILLOWED FROM the building as flames continued to engulf it. Again and again on the TV, a tape replayed, showing an airplane exploding into the upper part of the World Trade Center. News reporters frantically attempted to explain what had happened. No reports yet about the people inside except that survivors were seen running from the building. The unspoken question, “How many had already died?”

Flames suddenly exploded from the other tower. “I think that was another plane,” the reporter exclaimed incredulously. “Let me run that again.” As the tape ran a second time, he shouted, “Yes, another plane just hit the second tower!”

Slowly, the truth began to dawn. It was a terrorist attack. Reports began coming from every direction . . . like in the story of Job. Just as one reporter finished announcing a disaster, another interrupted to tell about another.

“There is fire in the Pentagon.”

“There is a report that another hi-jacked plane is still in the sky; no one knows where it is.”

As events unfolded, it became clear that a day of infamy had just been etched into the history of America. It was the morning of September 11, 2001.

As I watched TV that day with reports and televised pictures showing everything that was happening at once, I was reminded of how God looks down on each of us in the middle of a crisis and sees all the surrounding events that are taking place at the same time. He sees the big picture. Those at the heart of that terrible disaster had no idea what was happening. Many had no radio or television or any means of communicating with others. Cell phones were still in their infancy. These people did not know there was a terrorist attack. They did not know hijacked planes were being used as missiles. They had no idea of the kind of danger they were in. But those of us watching television saw it all unraveling on the screen before us. We had the big picture. And with the gift of perspective, those of us who belong to Christ could tap into The One who had an even bigger picture. We could pray.

Hearing that another hijacked jet was still in the sky that morning, I felt an urgency sweep through me. I ran to my living room and knelt down with my hands clasped on the love seat. Looking through the glass doors behind and up into the sky, I began to pray deeply in the spirit. Specifically I prayed for the people on that plane. I prayed for any Christians on the plane to experience God’s wisdom. I prayed that there were courageous people on the plane who would be able to intervene and change the course of the jet so there would not be another violent collision into a major landmark. My prayers were feverish and urgent. In the eye of my mind I could feel struggles going on.

After a few minutes I went back to the television set in the family room. Before long, a commentator reported a plane crash in Pennsylvania. They did not know if this was related to the hijackings or just an odd coincidence. Sometime later, stories began to filter through the airways that one man, then two men, then three…had called on cell phones and told their loved ones they were going to do something about the hijacking that was taking place.

Around noon I called my daughter, and we talked about our prayers that morning. Her prayer had been for the dying. “I just kept praying that people who were dying would call on the name of Jesus,” she said. In the solemnity of her voice there was a deep, painful sense of eternity hanging in the balance.

Several days later I heard the story of a Christian man who told of being with a group of people trapped in one of the Towers just before the collapse of Tower 2. “Call on the name of Jesus,” he shouted to them. From all around him, people began crying out, “Jesus,” “Jesus.” Miraculously, this man not only managed to get out from under the debris that buried them, but pulled out two others who were still alive as well. The three made it through the ash and debris to safety, but the others didn’t survive.

As Christians we know by faith that God is in control. What we cannot see, however, is how He exercises that control. He did not stop those first three planes that hit the World Trade Center and the Pentagon. But how many unseen mysteries happened that day that we will never hear of? How many people were moved by God’s Holy Spirit to pray? How many prayers strengthened the saints caught in the middle of disaster? How many stories could be told of heroism and courage that had eternal results? We will never know the answer to that until one day in Heaven we see “face to face.” Then we will know the mysteries and see God’s plan unfurled.

In a few more days it will be twenty years since that fateful day of September 11, 2001.

And once again we see and hear about innocent people in jeopardy because of the atrocities of terrorism—innocent people now trapped in the very country that birthed the horror of 9/11 twenty years ago, now controlled by a terrorist regime. And we wonder . . .  What is next? For the people of Afghanistan? For us? For the rest of the world?

As Christians we are not called to fear, however. We are called to prayer. For we know our God watches on the big screen. God hears our prayers and knows the needs of each of His people. He is in control, and the wonders of His ways none of us can fathom. As we tap into God through prayer, our prayers can touch people we don’t even know in countries we’ll never visit, including those desperate people in Afghanistan whose cries are being heard in the hearts of people around the world.

On September 11 I invite you to join me in calling on the name of Jesus and making this September 11, 2021, a day of prayer. We don’t have to change our plans or stay on our knees. But throughout the day we as Christians can pray quiet prayers of protection for the innocent, and confusion and defeat for the violent perpetrators of evil.

Please join me and dedicate yourself to prayer on September 11.

If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways, then will I hear from Heaven, and forgive their sin, and will heal their land. (2 Chronicles 7:14)

The righteousness of the blameless makes a straight way for them, but the wicked are brought down by their own wickedness. (Prov. 11:5)

Are you with me? Will you pray? I’d love to read your comments below:

To remind yourself about who’s in charge, listen to the following song and know that God will indeed hear you when you call.

“Whom Shall I Fear? (The God of Angel Armies)” by Chris Tomlin     https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R0gu0nOaFsI

 

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Interview with Penny Monetti, Co-author of Honored to Serve, Guidance and Encouragement for Military Families in Transition

Honored to Serve_catalogWith our recent celebration of the 4th of July, fond thoughts still linger on the brave men and women who have fought to make America free. Many of these military families have unique challenges on the home front as well as the battlefield. Through their two books, Called to Serve and Honored to Serve, Penny Monetti and her husband Lt. Col. Tony Monetti encourage both military and civilian families by providing combat care, recovery, and stress management for trauma and crisis victims. Penny is a Marriage Life Coach, is certified in the neuroscience of anxiety and mood disorders, and serves on Missouri Congresswoman’s Military Advisory Board.

Linda: What motivated you to write books that inspire both military members and civilians to overcome life’s tough challenges?

Penny: Living the military life as an Air Force B-2 bomber pilot’s wife and serving from the home front has truly been an honor. Along with changing addresses as often as a smoke detector changes batteries and forging lifelong friendships with people world wide, I also experienced other unique military-related challenges. Numerous times my husband informed me that he was leaving due to military missions. He could not tell me where or for how long. With young children in tow, I waved my husband off to combat or dangerous exercises, not knowing if and when he would return.

As boxes were packed for the thirteenth move, I reassured my children that they would make new friends again. I witnessed and experienced the collateral damage that combat places on families after war comes home.

Then, as our once seemingly perfect marriage went south, and I became transparent about my marital fires, I discovered the vast expanse of others whose outwardly strong relationships were inwardly dying. These diverse life experiences sparked a burning desire to help fellow military members overcome personal battles and reignite the love in their relationships. However, I surprisingly discovered readers, unaffiliated with military life, also related with our stories, such as couples, single parents, truck drivers, and others whose jobs required travel away from home.

After sharing painful issues such as pornography, temptations, destructive behaviors, and neglecting each others’ unmet needs, my husband Tony and I realized we could inspire others who felt lost, desperate, and as hopeless as we once did.

Many people currently live a life void of joy; they are unaware that the powerful life-changing tools reside within themselves. I believe that God used my painful experiences for His purpose to help others’ marriages not only survive pain but thrive because of pain.

Staying in a Painful Relationship

Linda: If pain prevailed in your relationship, could you tell us why you decided to fight to save it? Was there a defining moment you decided to stick it out?

Penny: At one point Tony and I were living at opposite ends of the house to avoid fighting. Our feelings of love seemingly disappeared. During this time, I read an inspirational book that a friend coincidentally gave me. When the book’s main character recounted her married history, my icy heart melted. I reflected on my own marriage. Tony and I had shared births and the death of our unborn child together. We experienced first steps, 2:00 a.m. fevers, Little League, and piano recitals. We survived wars, served community and country, wiped tears, and built a strong family. At one time, we were each others’ best friends. We couldn’t lose that.

I set the tear-stained book on my nightstand and grabbed my laptop computer. Tony was in London serving as the keynote speaker at a Penny Monetti & Husband B-2week-long aviation symposium. My mom was visiting me. With childcare taken care of, I decided to prove my commitment to Tony through extreme action. I clicked on a travel site and booked a flight the following day (worth a college semester’s tuition) to Great Britain. For the first time, I understood the “for worse” part of the marriage vows. I promised God to love my husband even when the worldly kingdom’s easy answer would be to bail out. As I clicked on the airline’s submit button to purchase the ticket, I truly submitted my marriage to God.

Just because I decided to be obedient to my vows, feelings of love did not magically reappear. Tough times awaited me; however, I hoped that with God’s powerful guidance, we could find our way back to each other and the love we once shared. The rest of this defining experience is included in Called to Serve and for me; it is our most powerful story. Although I couldn’t see it then, I can now look back and see that when I was at the darkest, weakest point in my life, God revealed His strength, turning my pain into His wonderful purpose.

Dealing with Pain

Linda: So are you saying pain can be good?

Penny: Face it. No one raises their hands in the Suffering 101 class shouting, “Pick me. Pick me!”

However, life’s inevitable trials serve a purpose if we choose to view them as a catalyst for growth. Pain serves as a messenger to thwart destructive threats. Our body’s pain receptors message the brain to reflexively remove ourself from danger to avoid further injury.

However, too often, we view pain as the enemy. We will do anything and everything to avoid pain. We down pills and alcohol to numb it. We secretly search for better relationships in person or via social media to escape it. We disassociate from people and experiences that trigger memories of it. We overwork, over commit, and over indulge to deflect it.

Instead of avoiding pain, if we allow ourselves to experience its message, we open doors to the life changing lessons it holds. God does not instruct us to avoid pain; instead he states the opposite. He says that we WILL suffer, yet, He will be at our side. Isaiah 43: 1-3 says, “Fear not… you are mine. When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and through the rivers, they shall not overwhelm you; when you walk through fire you shall not be burned, and the flame shall not consume you (ESV, emphasis mine).

Growth, healing, and a rich marriage relationship occurred because of the painful fires we traveled. When we could not depend on each Called to Serve book coverother, we focused on God, who became a mirror that enabled us to view ourselves as we really are—broken, unworthy sinners in need of a Savior. When we both submitted to God’s control, He began molding our marriage into the union He intended it to be. Proverbs 25:4 says, “Purge the dross from the silver, and material for a vessel comes forth for the silversmith (ISV). Dross is an impure by-product that is purged from silver when placed in a scorching hot furnace, over 600 degrees hot. The dross, also referred to as scum, rises to the top and the refiner removes it so the malleable silver can be molded into a beautiful vessel. Relational scum blocked us from experiencing a deeper, richer, beautiful union. God knew the degrees of refining heat required to render our relationship pure.

Verbal and Physical Abuse in Marriage

Linda: As a professional marriage life coach who specializes in stress management for trauma and crisis victims, what advice do you have if verbal or physical abuse is present?

Penny: I see clients weekly who live in physically or verbally abusive relationships. Many are concerned about remaining obedient to their marital vows and God’s precepts. My advice is this: Never remain in a threatening environment. Protect children and self first.

After the crisis passes, convey to your spouse that protecting the family is necessary, and leaving a dangerous situation is not equivalent to giving up on the relationship. Communicate that you want your spouse in your life, but needs to get healthy for your family come first. Set boundaries and seek to restore the relationship within strict parameters of professional guidance. If both parties are willing, hope exists.

Linda: What advice can you offer to someone who is walking through the fires of a separation?

Penny: While experiencing any stressful life situation, I advocate that individuals practice PMS: the kind you WANT to have. PMS is physical, mental and spiritual balance. Visualize this acronym as a three-legged stool. If one leg is missing, the stool tumbles. To make good mental decisions and be the best partner and parent, incorporate PMS into daily living.

Physical, Mental and Spiritual Balance in Stressful Times

Linda: Could you explain PMS a little more?

Penny: Certainly. Here’s a brief overview.

Physical– Twenty minutes of cardio exercise/day release endorphins and dopamine. These neurotransmitters play a key role in reducing anxiety and depression. According to Mayo clinic, endorphins’ effect on physical pain may be as effective as a dose of morphine. Endorphins are also known to have an anti-aging affect on the body.

Mental– Keep it positive. Surround yourself with supportive friends who encourage. Reduce negative influences that are energy vampires. You know who they are; their high maintenance friendships suck the life from you. Don’t de-friend them on Facebook; however, set boundaries. Focus your energies on encouraging friends.

Add positive self-talk into your inner dialogue, and say positive affirmations OUT LOUD, while including your name, at least three times daily. For instance, “(State your name) is compassionate and a loyal friend.” By listening to positive self-talk, your auditory neural pathways connect with cognitive thoughts and rewire the brain from obsessive self-defeating thoughts to hopeful thinking. After twenty-one days, this action will become a habit.

Spiritual – Studies indicate that prayer and meditation also redirect the brain’s neural pathways responsible for rumination and decreases depression and anxiety. Research shows that less than 1% of married couples who pray together divorce. Pretty amazing when the reported divorce rate is 52%.

Linda: What would you like the readers to take away from this interview?

Penny: If you don’t remember anything else, remember: love is a choice not a feeling. You chose to say I do, and when you vowed love to your spouse, you not only committed your marriage to each other, but also to God. Feelings of love during your marriage may fade, but His love remains steadfast. He promises that when we are weak, He is strong. When two individuals commit to abide in His love, all things are possible.

Linda: Where can readers find more information about you and your ministry?

Penny: The book is presently on sale and can be found at: https://dhp.org/dhp-pages/font-color-red-i-called-to-serve-i-and-i-honored-to-serve-i-font.html Readers can find more about our military ministry on Pennymonetti.com.

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