You Are Beautiful

Beautiful sunset

Photo by Al Quino

SITTING ON THE DOCK of a lake one late afternoon, I was captivated by the sight of an exquisite sunset.  The colors melting into one another to illuminate the sky stirred the lonely places of my heart. My husband had left several months earlier. Now we were separated, and I had no idea whether we would ever be together again.

Although clouds had enveloped my soul moments before because of my circumstances, I now found myself praising God, thanking Him for this beautiful sunset and the opportunity for me to see it.

“But what if you didn’t see it?  Would the sunset still be as beautiful?” I felt the Spirit of God asking me.

“Yes,” I said, “it would still be just as beautiful.”

“And what if no one saw this sunset, would it still be just as beautiful?” “Yes,” I said, “it would still be just as beautiful.”

“And if I make a person beautiful, but no one loves them, are they still beautiful?”  God’s Spirit inquired.

“Yes” I said, “they would still be beautiful.”

“I made you beautiful…and I love you.  So if your husband does not see your beauty, does that mean you are not beautiful?  If he does not love you, does that mean you are not loved?”

“No,” I whispered.  “I do not need anyone else to love me or think I am beautiful.  You are enough, Lord. If you love me and think I am beautiful, then that is enough.’

“I loved you enough to die for you,” He said.  “I created you to be the unique person that you are.  You are beautiful.  I love you.”

At that I bowed my head in praise and worshipped Him in love.

Excerpted from Broken Heart on Hold, Surviving Separation by Linda W. Rooks

If you need more hope and encouragement, you may find the hope you’re looking for in my book, Broken Heart on Hold, Surviving Separation. When facing the turmoil of a troublesome marriage, sometimes what we need most is a touch from God’s Spirit on our life so we can become stronger and more secure as we face each day.

 

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A Thanksgiving Rush to Christmas

Autumn leaf decor with words, "Give thanks"

Photo by Priscilla Du Preez

AS MY HUSBAND AND I drove through our neighborhood the weekend before Thanksgiving, we saw people out in their yards, already putting up Christmas lights and decorations.

“People are certainly starting on Christmas early,” I said.

“They sure are,” my husband responded. “I remember when people didn’t put up Christmas decorations until a couple of weeks before Christmas.”

“Then it became right after Thanksgiving. Now it’s after Halloween—before Thanksgiving,” I reflected. “People just can’t wait. I guess it has something to do with coming out of the pandemic. Everyone needs a little Christmas.”

Being of the old school, our first thoughts were to wonder if people were overlooking Thanksgiving in a rush to Christmas. But later that week as I reflected on it further, something hit me.

What hit me was a scripture: Psalm 100:4. “Enter into his gates with Thanksgiving and into his courts with praise.”

God’s Word was telling me to enter His gates with thanksgiving. In other words, God was saying thanksgiving provides an entryway into His presence. And, as Christians, what do we want to experience at Christmas?  God’s presence!

Thanksgiving is the beginning of the holiday season, and as we enter this season by giving thanks at Thanksgiving, we are also entering into God’s presence where we can more fully experience the holiness of Christmas in the days ahead.

All of a sudden, the holiday season began to fit together in my mind in a whole new way.  Perhaps Thanksgiving can, after all, be the beginning of Christmas.  For when we spend the day in thanksgiving to God for the blessings He has given us, we can be preparing our hearts for what lies ahead when we celebrate the birth of the Christ child.

For many of us, Thanksgiving is all about getting together with family and eating turkey. Yes, we will start it off with a prayer of thanks, and many of us come up with a creative way for family members to share what they are thankful for. But as we lift our hearts to God in thanksgiving and worship, it can actually be much more. It can become a way to enter into the advent season to prepare our hearts for the worship of the king.

So if we are seeing a Thanksgiving rush to Christmas, perhaps we can use it to make both of these holidays more meaningful. They are still separate holidays, but the one prepares us for the other. We are leaving the ghosts of Halloween behind and lifting up God’s name in praise and thanksgiving as we enter into a time of celebration and worship for God’s holy gift to us, the birth of His son Jesus, who came to save us from the darkness of this world so we could live with Him in eternity.

“Enter into his gates with thanksgiving and into his gates with praise. Be thankful to Him, and bless His name. For the Lord is good; His mercy is everlasting, and His truth endures to all generations.” Psalm 100:3-5

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New Every Morning

Sunshine streamed through the bedroom window, bathing my bed in golden rays of light even before I opened my eyes.

Morning had come. It was a new day.

Even though I’d felt discouraged the day before, I had gone to bed that night by lifting the Lord up in praise, remembering that even in the darkness He could overcome. It’s certainly not something I did every time I felt disappointed and unhappy, but over the years I had learned there is power in praising God and remembering His goodness. And the worship service that morning had reminded me what a good God we have.

Now it was morning—a new opportunity to see prayers answered, a new opportunity to see hope rise up in the midst of ashes and disappointment.

Memories of a scripture, long ago remembered, drifted into my mind. Your compassions are new every morning. Great is your faithfulness. (Lamentations 3)

Yes, it was a new morning, a new day.

“This is the day the Lord has made. I will be glad and rejoice in it,” says Psalm 118:24.

What a wonderful reminder that scripture is.

Morning is a gift to us, a new beginning. The sun comes out as a declaration of hope, claiming the promise of a new day.

“Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail,” declares Lamentations 3:22-14. “They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness. I say to myself, “’The Lord is my portion; therefore I will wait for him.’”

Every morning God gives us a new beginning. Even if sorrows from the day before hover above our spirits, the morning brings a new opportunity to release them to the Healer of hearts.

Every morning is a new opportunity to see prayers answered and a new opportunity to wipe our slates clean by coming to God and seeking forgiveness. Each morning is a new day to invite our Savior to journey with us through the hours in front of us, leading us one step at a time and opening our eyes to new possibilities. Each morning is a new opportunity to open up our Bibles to see what God is saying to us for THIS day. It’s a new opportunity to serve Him and a new opportunity to find God in unexpected places as we wait on Him throughout the day.

We may not see the answers come that day either. But guess what? When we lay our head on the pillow that night and go to sleep, a few hours later we will awaken to a new morning–a new gift from God. And His compassions are new every morning.

What is God saying to you about today? Forget about yesterday. That is over. And don’t worry about  tomorrow, or it will rob you of today. Today is yours right now, and it will never come again. Enjoy the gift God has given you – the gift of today. Watch and wait for what He is doing in your life in the coming hours. The morning brings new opportunities. Celebrate by praising Him, using the power of prayer He has given you, and by serving Him as you love those who come into your path throughout the day.

Enjoy your gift—your gift of morning. It’s a precious gift from God.

If your heart needs healing in the midst of marital trauma, you will find hope and a friend to walk beside you in my book, Broken Heart on Hold, Surviving Separation.

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Learning about the Power of Praise – Again

Photo by Debby Ledet

During this pandemic one of the strange advantages my husband and I have discovered in having to watch online church is that sometimes we can watch more than one service from different churches on the same Sunday morning. And sometimes it’s amazing how God uses different services at two separate churches to hammer home a message He has for us.

Our hearts were crushed over some difficult circumstances we were experiencing because of the heartache thrust upon someone we loved. We knew God was in charge, but we couldn’t see Him working. The circumstances looked bleak. The breakthrough we’d been praying for just wasn’t happening.

As we connected to our online church that morning, our hearts were heavy. When the service at the first church was over, we connected to the second church that started fifteen minutes later than the first. We were just in time to hear the beginning of the sermon. Both of the messages that morning spoke of God’s love for us and our praise back to Him in response. Both services incorporated singing in the midst of the sermon message—a rather unusual approach for each. The first message spoke about our communication with God being a two way conversation. The second was specifically about praising God in song.

Two Churches – Same Message – Same Song

I was still struggling in my mind with the problem at hand during the second church service, when the soft refrains of a song that had already been sung at the first church we listened to began in this totally separate church.

“I love you, Lord, and I lift my voice . . . .“

This was not a currently popular song we would expect to hear in 2020, but an older song that had been a meaningful one to me personally for a number of years. For two different churches to use it on the same Sunday morning in our hearing during this painful time seemed one of those strange coincidences orchestrated by a loving God, and it touched me deeply. As the words of the song penetrated my heart, my eyes filled with tears.  I felt God moving.

Even though we were not at a physical church, but sitting in front of my computer, my husband and I began to sing.

“. . . to worship you, oh my soul, rejoice. Take joy, my king, in what you hear. May it be a sweet, sweet sound in your ear.”

God was speaking to us. He was getting my attention. I saw that God wanted to soften our hearts so we could experience his presence and joy in the midst of our pain. He wanted us to trust Him.

And so God was teaching us – again—about praise, about the power that comes when we lift our hearts in praise even in the midst of difficult circumstances.

Remembering  Another Time

As I lifted my voice to God, I remembered a time many years before when the church we were attending began with a praise service so powerful and beautiful that it bled into the sermon time. Because God’s Spirit was moving so powerfully throughout the congregation and many people were visibly responding, the pastor actually skipped his sermon so the praise could continue.  I’ve never seen this happen before or afterwards at any church.

But I was one of the ones so strongly affected.  My husband and I had just begun to reconcile our marriage after our three year separation, and my heart was still filled with pain. During that praise service, the tears erupted in my eyes as I felt God’s perfect love washing away the imperfect experience of love that had held me hostage for those three years. As the music, the praise, and the words of adoration peeled through the sanctuary, healing flowed through my veins and into my spirit. The words of praise reached down into the very caverns of my soul where the pain had become so imbedded, and flowed into the crusty places of my heart.  As I continued to quietly weep, I felt God’s love flooding through me, replacing the residue of broken promises and abandonment that had caused such pain. It was like standing beneath a waterfall where God’s cleansing flood of love washed through me again and again to lift my heart to Him so I could release the pain through my tears.  It was during that praise service when God’s Holy Spirit washed through my spirit and cleansed away the pain of our separation.

God is Still Working

So this morning, as we struggled with a new sorrow, God was again reminding me of His omnipotence. He was pulling me out of my melancholy and lifting my eyes and heart to Him. He wanted my husband and me to remember He was still in control. He was still working – even as the next song, “Waymaker” began to ring through the airways.

“You never stop. You never stop working.”

No, He never does. He never stops working. He’s always working out His perfect plan in His creation even when we can’t see it and in our lives when we put our trust in Him and bring Him into our circumstances.

Lifting our hearts in praise to God sheds the debris of doubt and disappointment to remind us that Jesus didn’t promise to keep us out of trouble. In fact, he said, “We will have trouble. But take heart, I have overcome the world” (John 16:33).

Yes, He is the Overcomer. He is the One who can bring “beauty from ashes and the oil of joy in place of mourning” (Isaiah 61:3).

The power of praise is a mystery, transcending our own understanding to inject God’s power into the circumstances of our lives so He can heal our hearts, remind us of His sovereignty, and transform our lives into new reflections of His holiness.

Listen here to I Love You Lord by Maranatha

If your heart is breaking because of a troublesome marriage, you don’t have to walk this journey alone. Let my book, Broken Heart on Hold, Surviving Separation, be a friend to you.

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Living in Lockdown

Life is crazy and unpredictable right now. The world feels like it has turned upside down. Most of us are in lockdown and can’t leave the house. We can’t go to work. Students have to do “school” from home. We can’t even work off steam by going to the gym. We may be scrambling for food and other items we need – toilet paper anyone?

But sometimes when we feel completely out of control, God has the best opportunity to do some of His greatest work. Our own agenda and our own self-will often blocks what God wants to do. In our busy schedules, we put off time seeking God and push forward trying to do what “we” know is best . . . whatever that is.

So what does God want to do in our lives in the midst of this lockdown?

In my book, Broken Heart on Hold, I talk about taking a coffee break with God when times of marital chaos interrupt our life. Perhaps what’s happening all over our country now gives us another opportunity to take a coffee break with God .

Where is God leading you right now?

If you have extra time during this lockdown, take a day with God. Spend quality time with Him in His Word. Ask Him to shine a light on the path ahead where He will guide you to encounter His very best.

Start your day by praising Him, remembering the blessings He has given you in the past. “The Lord inhabits the praises of His people” (Psalm 22:3). When we praise God, we invite Him to participate in our lives, to enlarge our vision, to give us hope when hope seems far away from everything we see. And as our heart begins to open to His Word, we will see new things He wants to teach us; we will feel His presence; we will find prayers on our lips for those around us who need His touch. A time that seems enveloped in darkness can be illuminated by the light of God’s truth when we open our hearts completely to His leading.

Where is God leading you this week? How is He speaking to your heart?

Use this strange time of solitude and lockdown to find the answer to that question. Sit down with your Bible and a journal and write down what you believe God is speaking to you. Listen to praise music. Invite Him into your presence. Meditate on His Word. Maybe find a new Christian book to read. If you want suggestions, you can scroll through past author interviews I’ve done on my blog to find a book that meets a need.

God may unwrap new mysteries to you as He sheds light on your journey ahead and the path He wants you to follow.

“Your word is a lamp for my feet, and a light on my path.”  Psalm 119: 105

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When You Don’t Feel Thankful

As we approach Thanksgiving, some of you anticipate the day with joy, happy at the idea of getting together with family, feasting on turkey, and remembering the blessings of the past year.

But others of you experience a sense of dread as the day draws near. Monumental problems in your life crowd out any sense of joy. Blessings seem a distant memory – a fantasy of days gone by. With Thanksgiving day drawing near, you’re not sure you have anything to be thankful for.

I remember such a time when my marriage was collapsing around me. My husband and I were separated. Confusion and fear gripped my heart and I had no idea what the future held. It was hard to be thankful.

During this difficult time in my life, however, I discovered an amazing irony. While I often did not feel thankful because of my painful circumstances, I found that when I let go of my pain and confusion to raise my eyes toward Heaven and simply thank God for being my Lord and Father, my heart grew lighter and I felt at peace.

As I magnified God through my praise, the debris of doubt and fear cleared from my mind and my perspective changed. God appeared larger and I became more aware of His awesome power and majesty. As a result, my painful circumstances seemed less weighty and prominent. I saw only God, only His love, only His comforting presence. Thanking and praising God was a salve to my aching heart. In the midst of praise I knew I would be alright.

The irony I discovered is that thanking God—when it seemed I had nothing to be thankful for—actually gave me something to be thankful for.

Psalm 100:4 tells us to “Enter into His gates with thanksgiving, and into His courts with praise. Be thankful to Him, and bless His name.”

In other words, it is when we are thankful–when we praise His name—that we can enter into the very presence of God. And when we do, we find that His majesty and power is greater than any problem we encounter. In the light of His almighty presence and power, the darkness in our lives grows pale.

When we thank God and praise Him, we open a window into Heaven through which God smiles down upon us and surrounds us with His presence. The opportunity to be thankful and lift our praise to God is an inexplicably beautiful gift God has given us, a gift that brings us into His presence and lifts our hearts out of the surrounding circumstances of our lives. Praising God and thanking Him brings us into His courts where God’s glory outshines the tinsel and washes away the dross of the world around us.

Psalm 28:7 says, “The Lord is my strength and my shield; my heart trusted in Him, and I am helped. Therefore my heart greatly rejoices, and with my song I will praise Him.”

If you are having trouble feeling thankful, when you wake up on Thanksgiving day begin by praising God. Thank Him for His love, which never ceases. Thank Him for being a big God that nothing can defeat. Thank Him that you have the incredible privilege of coming before the God of the universe and offering up your heart.  When you do, He will pour His strength into your weakness. He will fill your heart with Himself and the forever love He has for you. Not only will you find you do have something to be thankful for, but with the tenderness of God’s presence so near, you might find this Thanksgiving to be more meaningful than ever before.

“Why, my soul, are you downcast? Why so disturbed within me? Put your hope in God, for I will yet praise him, my Savior and my God” (Psalm 42:11).

“Praise the Lord. Praise God in his sanctuary; praise him in his mighty heavens. Praise him for his acts of power; praise him for his surpassing greatness. . . .  Let everything that has breath praise the Lord. Praise the Lord” (Psalm 150:1-2, 6).

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Out of the Dust: Story of an Unlikely Missionary by Avis Goodhart – Interview with Collaborative Writer Marti Pieper

Out of the Dust - Cover - Marti PieperThis week I’m privileged to interview Marti Pieper, a dear friend and collaborative writer who has put into words the story of a woman who surmounted huge obstacles in her life through a faith that grew through the challenges. By surrendering her life to God, Avis Goodhart not only became stronger herself, but eventually began to serve others and glorify God in powerful ways.

As a collaborative writer, Marti Pieper has used her passion to read, write and pray to help produce eight non-fiction books, including Out of the Dust, which received AWSA’s Golden Scroll Nonfiction Merit Award this past summer.

Linda: The title of your book intrigues me, Marti. Could you tell my readers how you came up with the title, Out of the Dust?

Marti: I wrote the book for missionary Avis Goodhart. Pacasmayo, the small city where her ministry is based, is a dusty place. Avis founded an orphanage, church, and school there, all built on top of a landfill. When I stayed there to interview Avis and others, I had to wear sunglasses whenever I went out—not because it was so sunny, but because of the constant dust in the air.

But the “dust” in the title is also a metaphor for the lives God has used Avis to bring out of brokenness. Her own background is a prime example of that. Her book also includes small stories of other lives God has brought out of the dust through her ministry.

A Faith That Overcomes

Linda: You say the author overcame personal obstacles. Could you tell us a little bit about that? How did her faith help her through them?

Marti: Some of the first obstacles Avis had to overcome began in her childhood. Her father loved her, but he suffered from PTSD (Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder) as a result of his service in World War II. As a result, the family made multiple moves—often with only a few minutes’ notice. Seven children and two parents traveled in one old car with all their belongings stuffed into the trunk and piled on top. One year, Avis and her siblings went to ten different schools.

Avis was also a victim of child sexual abuse and, like many in that situation, believed she was dirty and somehow at fault. But her faith in Christ helped her gain a new identity in Him and confidence in His power. Now, she reminds others that God can use them no matter what. One of her favorite sayings is, “Don’t waste your pain.”

Avis also experienced the pain of infidelity with both her marriages. Her teen marriage ended after eleven years, and she later remarried. But she soon realized her new husband struggled with alcohol and infidelity. One night, she sat on her bed, telling God she was ready to stop being a good girl. “I have the name (divorcée), why not play the game?” she thought.

But God had other plans. He showed her a movie in her mind of a woman fixing up house after house and trying to please man after man. None of those relationships worked, and Avis realized God wanted her full surrender. Once she gave Him her life and her plans, He restored her marriage in a miraculous way.

Linda: How did Avis’s background of pain lead her into mission work?

Marti: That’s another great story. Avis has dyslexia, and after she raised her children, she went to college and became a special education teacher so she could help others with disabilities. Her interest in missions began in childhood, but she didn’t follow up on it for many years. After she became a teacher, she started taking mission trips with her nieces in the summertime, traveling cross-country to tell others about Christ.

But God kept calling her to do more. She offered herself to various mission organizations, telling them she was available during summer break and would pay her own way, but she never heard back from any of them. Finally, at age fifty, she took her first mission trip with a friend and saw God use her in incredible ways. She then began taking mission trips on her own. Eventually, God led her to Peru, where she founded and built an orphanage, Casa de Paz (“House of Peace”) as well as a church and school.

A Faith That Reaches Out

Linda: How has her faith helped her in her ministry? Could you share a story from your book about this?

Marti: Avis’s strong faith is the reason she went to Peru—and all the other countries—in the first place. She’s an “unlikely missionary,” as the book’s subtitle describes her, because with her background as well as her disability, most people would not consider her a good missionary candidate. Avis not only has dyslexia but also suffered an attack of Bell’s Palsy which left permanent damage, so she had to leave the teaching profession. But God uses us as we make ourselves available to Him.

A great example of her faith and availability is told in Chapter 13, “Hurricane!” Before Avis founded the ministry in Peru, she served multiple times in Honduras. When Hurricane Mitch hit that country, she believed God wanted her to bring supplies for its victims from her hometown in Arkansas. Tyson Foods lent her a semi-truck and driver, and Avis solicited enough donations to fill the entire truck.

Despite many obstacles, she traveled on a shrimp boat to reach Honduras with the supplies during the final stages of the hurricane. First, the shrimp boat captain didn’t want her to come, but she prayed and persisted until she was signed on as a crew member. Next, she became terribly ill from the wind and waves. For three days, she lay in a cabin, almost unable to move. But once she felt better, the first thing she did was to have a praise party right there on the deck of the ship. The crew laughed at her, but Avis didn’t care. She knew she had to worship the great God who protected her.

Linda: That’s fantastic, Marti. What a a great story! I’m sure some people are wondering about your role as a Marti Pieper“collaborative author.” Would you tell us a little about what this means and what your part was in writing Out of the Dust?

Marti: A collaborative writer is someone who writes books or other materials on behalf of others. The authors for whom I write often don’t have time or ability to write their own books. They’re usually busy running a ministry or traveling to speak. I love being the one who helps them put their messages or stories into print.

On a few of my book projects, I remain hidden—in other words, my name doesn’t appear on the cover. That’s called ghostwriting. But on this book and two others, my name is listed on the cover (“with Marti Pieper”), so I’m considered a collaborative writer.

Linda: Thank you so much, Marti, for telling us about Avis and her ministry. I pray that her story will encourage others to follow her example of faith. How can readers connect with Avis and with you?

Marti: They can connect with Avis through Facebook www.facebook.com/avis.goodhart or at her ministry’s website, www.go-yeministries.com. They can also see a video of Avis’s most recent appearance on 100 Huntley Street at: www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Iz9jKnGiN4.

They can find me at my website, www.martipieper.com, on Facebook, www.facebook.com/marti.pieper, or on Twitter, www.twitter.com/MartiPieper. Thanks so much for this privilege, Linda!

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Entering Into Thanksgiving

gateway“WHERE ARE YOU GOD? Where are your blessings? How do I find you?” Beneath the words of heartache in the emails I often receive, these are the underlying questions that I hear in them. The pain is palpable. And at this time of year, it’s especially difficult.

As Thanksgiving approaches, I know some of your hearts are heavy with pain and longing, and you’re groping to see the blessings. Thanksgiving is coming on too quick. And you know Christmas is close behind. You’re just not ready to celebrate.

When life hits us hard, how do we enter in?

Psalm 100:4 says “Enter into his gates with thanksgiving, and into his courts with praise.”

If you grew up in church like I did, you probably heard this phrase many times. It’s a familiar psalm, and if you’re like me, it’s probably so familiar that it just rolls off the tongue and through the mind . . . without truly connecting . . . . But last night as I lay in bed, thinking about this coming week . . . thinking about and praying for many of you for whom Thanksgiving comes in the midst of difficult times, these words swirled through my mind with new meaning. For these words give us God’s answer to the question many of us are asking. How do we enter in?

The psalmist says:

“With thanksgiving.”

When God seems distant, when life offers more questions than answers, when our hearts are heavy, Psalm 100 says to enter into his gates with thanksgiving.

It’s another one of God’s paradoxes, another one of those spiritual truths that hovers above our sense of logic. How do we grasp it?

By entering in . . .

With thanksgiving.

When we can’t find God, when life is hard, when questions abound, lifting our voices with thanksgiving brings us into the gates of God’s presence. All it takes is starting with just a few words of thanks.

What do we have to be thankful for?

Anything.

Something small perhaps. A ray of sunshine pushing through the mist of a gloomy day. Raindrops sparkling on the windowpane. A soft pillow to lay our head. The smooth aroma of coffee on a cold morning. A friendly voice on the phone.

As we thank God for small things, He will begin to fill our minds with more. And one by one, little by little, we will enter in.

And in the midst of our thanksgiving, we will find God . . . embracing us, comforting us until our hearts open up with praise. And then we are in His courts. We are in His presence.

In His presence, His light shines upon us. No, the problems are not gone. But there in His presence we have all we need, the Alpha and Omega, the first and the last, the God of creation, the God who loves us, the God who walks with us through the mazes of life. And this is something to be truly thankful for.

This is thanksgiving.

“Enter into his gates with Thanksgiving and into his courts with praise. For the LORD is good; his mercy is everlasting; and his truth endureth to all generations.” Psalm 100:4-5

Let this song of praise lift you into a time of Thanksgiving. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gn5CMSSAx_c

A heavy heart grows lighter through thanksgiving.

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A Thanksgiving Irony

What a joy to begin this blog at Thanksgiving, the day when we all come together in corporate thanks to God.

 Most of us welcome Thanksgiving as a time of fellowship with family, a day of feasting, and a day of remembering all of the year’s past blessings.

With all the chaos of the world around us, Thanksgiving is a day when we as a nation collectively recognize all that is right, rather than all that is wrong. Thanksgiving is a day when we sift through the realities and discover what is good.  For this one day we as Christians put aside the pride of our individual achievements and thank Him for all the good in our lives, recognizing that all good things come from God.

But for some of us, Thanksgiving seems to be at odds with where we are in our circumstances.

A house is in foreclosure, a child is in rebellion, the recent diagnosis from the doctor riddles us with fear.  Being thankful?  For what?  The hollowness of Thanksgiving may make even the taste of turkey dry up in our mouths as our minds dwell on all that is wrong, not all that is right.

But for anyone who finds themselves in this situation, the irony of Thanksgiving is that in spite of

.  . . No, actually, because of  . . .

the problems we bemoan in our lives, the celebration of Thanksgiving can become the very thing to lift us out of where we are into where we want to be.  For when we thank God, we bring Him into our presence. Praise and thanksgiving pleases God.  And when the details of our lives give us less to be thankful about, a thankful heart touches God all the more deeply.

When we thank God and praise Him, we open a window into Heaven through which God smiles down upon us and surrounds us with His presence. The opportunity to be thankful is an inexplicably beautiful gift God has given us, a gift that brings Him into our presence and lifts our hearts out of the surrounding circumstances of our lives.  Praising God and thanking Him brings us into beauty’s company where God’s glory outshines the tinsel and the dross of the world around us.

In some of the darkest moments of my life, I found that praising God cleansed the pain from my soul and helped me see more clearly.  As the debris of doubt and fear cleared from my mind, I saw only God, only His love, only His comforting presence.  His enormity was so overpowering and so overwhelming in the midst of praise that I knew I would be alright. 

Tomorrow, as you wake up to that day we call Thanksgiving, begin by praising God. Let Him remind you of the good things He has brought into your life.  But most of all thank Him for His love, which never ceases. Thank Him for being a big God that nothing can defeat. Thank Him that you have the incredible privilege of coming before the God of the universe and offering up your heart.  Praise Him.  Thank Him. 

This Thanksgiving as you bring thanks to God, may it turn around to bless you with hope that comes to you in unexpected ways so that on November 29 you discover that you actually DO have more to be thankful for than you did the day before.

Happy Thanksgiving.

“Great is the Lord and most worthy of praise; his greatness no one can fathom.” Psalm 145:3

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